Asking her Out.. The 15 minutes conversation
November 28 2005
The day has finally come to gather all my courageous energy and talk with a long long crush of mine. It was a normal morning and i decided to talk to KGB as for start of some beginning. The whole day was more like a bunch of imaginations and not advisable ideas. A friend of mine RJ tagged along with me in the Ateneo Fiesta. I was looking for KGB and whenever i felt her presence, i get petrified and disappear in the busy streets of Ateneo. It was more of torpe day for me.
8:15 PM
Finally, the time came when she was all alone with my very adorable friend "Fe." I followed them and kinda of intentioned accident of interception. KGB went into the toilet and Fe was left outside. I approached Fe and it was pretty obvious that I was going to talk with KGB that moment. The moment came when she left the toilet and went to Fe. I was hidden from KGB's sight until she reaches 1 meter away from Fe. I was hidden in the hallway's thick post. I was bowing down looking at the narrowed hallway between NCB and College building. I was looking in the different direction but I was concerned of the girl in red approaching Fe. She was so shocked when she saw me inches away from them. Fe told me to say "hi" but i blew it away by saying "Hi...! Shit! ang torpe ko talga!!" They laughed and we walked along the hallway of the College building. Usap kame while walking. The hallway was like 40-50 meters long. In that part, I asked her out to watch Harry potter 4 which was 1% of my intention of that day. She said a big ............. "Yes" then i was so shocked! omg! wth? she's going out with me? She asked "when?" and i replied "tomorrow, 12:30PM... kung ok lang mga 11:30AM para isabay na ang lunch." She paused for a while and thought about it. Time like was so slow that i could see her lips instead of hearing her saying "yes." Yea, time really stops that moment, but big fish was right, after that, time really was like fastforwarding.
KGB and I were completely strangers before this moment. We knew a lil bit of each other through text but it was the first conversation. It was more of a 5 minute "first" conversation plus asking her out. A miracle of "yes!" was the answer. I,being so amused by what had happened, I gave some appointment on the next day knowing that i had some job to do at that time.. LOL!!! For a minute there, I forgot i had a LAN party to fix!! Bedtime came and i couldnt sleep. I thought about so much stuff about the next day and it reached me till 3:30 AM; I wokeup at 6 AM. The date plus the party really blew my mind during that time.
November 29 2005
"The Date"
The date was carefully analyzed by me and my friend marc.
Plan A
KGB would go alone and date with me only. a 1-1 conversation the entire date.
Plan B
KGB would bring a friend along since im a total stranger to him. More harder to talk to KGB because of her friend coming along. Her friend would have to be treated in lunch to came and the movie house. meaning, More expenses.
During lunch:
KGB will be shy in ordering so im advised to decide on what to order.
11:20 AM:
I texted KGB where she is currently. She replied and said "in the jeepney"
11:30 AM:
I bought a simpe red rose worth Php 25.00 )just something to give that day) and put inside my bag.
11:40 AM:
I stayed near the gate in case I saw her. When she came, I went out, cross the street. She crossed the street and then i crossed the street again. She didnt saw me in that case. I talked to her and said with confidence "hi!" Sabi nya: "OK lang ba kung hanapin ko muna kasama ko?" sabi ko: "hmmm... ok!" We went inside the school and i told myself that this would be the hard Plan B.
She went to the Scholarship's booth and looked for some of her friends. She couldnt find any of them and then she said: "Whatever! ako na lang!" Her friends didnt want to come along just to tease her.
11:45 AM:
We went off to Mindpro. It was bright and hot weather. But my eyes were more dazzled by the beauty of the lady im dating. She was blooming like a hana during its season. She was So so so way beautiful than I imagined. We walked so fast but deep in my mind was like a bullet time. She has this long shiny her and cutey smile. As we crossed from Mc do to mindpro, i asked her: "Im still wondering why you said yes kagabi.." She said something i cant hear because of the loud traffic. We were around 7 meters. when...
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A gay happends to pass by and said to me. "Ang gwapo mo!!" Sabi ko "Thank you!"
KGB laughed by herself as that happend. Gosh! deep in my mind said, OMG!! ano to? ngayon pa talga?
To let myself out of shame, i told her na parati naming naXXP ni marc duran nung HS kame. I was passing the shame to my friend Marc!! ROFL!!!. sorry marc.. peace :D
------------------------> Embarrassing moments <---------------------------
At last.. i felt breeze of the cold air from the mall. we reached the entrance and i open my bag for check-up. The Security guard had this good natured smile aimed to me because he saw the rose inside my bag. I smiled back and said: "thank you nong!"
(oh yeah!! What a relief! first the gay then here comes the guard teasing me)
11:50-12:00
I decided mag-greenwich na lang coz alam ko di sia makadecide. I asked her what she likes to eat. sabi nya: "kahit ano na lang.. kaw na bahala.." sabi ko: "ok.. isang chicken w/ rice plus caffe latte... ok ba yon?" sabi nya: " umm... umm... yong hindi masyado heavy.." i said: " ok .. ( i was suggesting other kinds of orders).... ok na ba yon?" she said: " hmmm....(she looks like she doesnt know what she wants) kaw na bahala.." I said: " ok 1 chicken w/ rice plus caffe latte." She left and looked for vacant tables. The chicken was fast but we have to wait for the latte for 5 mins. I served the chicken tapos we were about to eat. Sabi ko: "Nagdadasal ka ba?" she said: "yea.. (blah blah.. i cant remember what she said)" She stood up and went to wash her hands. As she stood up her hanky fell unknowingly, some stranger said: "yong handky nahulog" i picked it up and placed it near my seat. Di nya namalayan yon. While washing, i went to get the latte. We went back, i returned her handky.. sabi ko: "handky mo oh.. nahulog" sabi nya: "oh.. ty" sabi ko: "parang scripted noh" sabi nya: " yea.. parang scripted (jokingly)... " (why the hell did i said that????)
12:00-12:40 Approximately
The next part were conversations about her.. likes, dislikes, family and etc..
A summary of some important conversation w/c may lead to my destiny of our relationship. I asked her about some XPs in the past in love life and she usually say things w/c i dont understand. She dont want to share it but this is what i get from the tiny details.
"In her high school days, she was confused in relationships. Boys would end up a slap on their faces when they court her. She usually sends this negative signals w/c lowers the morale of the boys and leave her alone forever."
Pretty cool ha? quite a sadists i say.. (she agreed).. i laughed at this details but i know this is quite true to her personality.
12:40 onwards.
We went to the movie and I was pretty silent.
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(I already watched HP4.) She said she was goint to the toilet and i wanted to escort her out. She said: "Its ok.. wag na.. ako na lang.." Deep inside of my heart was the desire to escort her but i failed. I kinda think that she'll ran away and nvr return.. lol.. but she went back!! yea!.. the point is. I felt guilty by not becoming a gentlemen.. (morality from father moga.. bwahaha))
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HP was near ending when suddenly a familiar voice was clinging into my ear. I suddenly felt that my mother was behind our seat w/ my sister. i said to myself: OMG!!!!!!!!! WTH should i do?. I slowly told her that my mom was at the back. She asked if my mom knows and i said NO. I knew that time i made her insecure considering it was a first date. I was thinking of some best actions not to make her fully insecure. When HP was finished, she wanted to go out already and doesnt want to watch the start again.. My mom and my sis, existed the rows going left to find other good seats and we existed to the right.. Thank God it was dark!!!
We left and she went to the toilet. I saw my cousin ricky and saw we were together.. i said: "My date!" i think i made her more insecure by that.. oh well.. it was better to go out of the movies now.
When we were going to school, i asked her if she can date me again. She was more of a state of shock and doesnt want to reply either "yes", "no" or "ewan" .. she said next next next year.. i didnt want to expound on that but i knew it was time to depart..
oh well.. tats the end of my story.. someone proofread this.. grammatical errors are rampant ...
typed in :12:00AM - 2:26 AM of November 30, 2005
I couldnt sleep!!
*Edited: 11:16PM of March 8 2006
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